"If it is to be, it is up to me."

Even though your trying to be physically fit by exercising and doing better with your life, don't mean you have to do it all by youraself. Sometimes you may need someone to tell you "Hey you looking good man, what you been working out." Those kind of positive attitudes make a person fill good and make them want to do better. Then look at the other side, if a person is being to negative like saying "Hey it doesn't matter if your working out your still gonna look fat regardless." People like that don't need to be around you at all because there just a person thats gonna doubt anyone at anytime and any place.